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Misinterpreted Body Languages Of Women

Saturday, September 19, 2009
Well we have already understood that men and women say things differently through their body language. So let’s continue the journey and see how the women’s body language is easily misunderstood by men. Understanding women body language is an art and that’s what we are going to unravel here.
Your girl raises her eyebrows and purse her lips in a cold and sarcastic way saying ‘I am fine’ when she is actually fuming.
The Truth: any girlfriend of hers will easily understand this body language. She is in a bad mood and she is just trying to control her anger. But the man just can’t understand these unspoken hints. He has only heard the words, ‘I am fine’ and will accept only that. He takes things on the face value. So when you say that everything is ok then he accepts that.

The Solution: girls are not comfortable at getting harsh at each and every situation. They want to keep things polite. But your guy can handle this. Guys are more straightforward by nature and they expect you to be so also. And if it is not possible to blurt things out, like he shouts that you have spent exaggerating too much on your dress (of course he didn’t get that death cold stare) then keep it for later. Once the both of you are a bit alone then slip a small hint saying that you will discuss that comment later. He will get the clue and try to do something in his rescue. Men are good at solving problems so let them clean up their own mess this time.
You cozy up to him and rub his leg. But he thinks it is his lucky hot night.
The Truth: simply blame it on biology. Men read simple sexual intention into all kinds of body language. Even if you smile warmly maintaining a steady eye contact it may seem suggestive to a man. So any physical touch of course gets all types of ideas in his head. To him this body language suggests that you are in the mood.

The Solution: if you just want to cuddle and feel close to him, then avoiding touching the lower part of the body, especially with your hands. So how about leaning against him, squeezing his hand or putting your arm around his shoulder instead. You can also subtly hint that though you are not up for sex you would love some physical contact. Show that you crave closeness.
When you look completely blank and expressionless he gets into a panic state.
The Truth: it is generally a fact that women smile much more than men. Even if there is no occasion to smile we give a strained approval. And when all of a sudden the face goes blank he gets all nervous and assumes that he must have done something awfully wrong to upset you this much. So then you don’t have much of a choice but to give those plastic smiles to put him at ease.

The Solution: before he gets all panicky and confused, hold his hand and let him know that you are simply relaxing. That way he is assured that he has not done anything wrong and you are not pissed out. So sit back and relax all you want.

So fellows, now we know how easily the body language can be misinterpreted. Read each other’s body language and see your relationship grow in a new light.

Misinterpreted Body Languages Of Men

As mentioned above, men and women have different body languages to say things differently. So here are some commonly misunderstood body languages of men.
While you are talking to him, he shifts his body away from you and doesn’t even tilt or nod his head. So of course you take it that is simply not interested in listening to what you are saying.
The Truth: well women are natural talkers and not only can they talk and share things in the most natural of ways, but also instinctively move their bodies to encourage sharing. So when women are in a conversation, they give their complete undivided attention. They nod their head, smile and gaze at the speaker’s face to encourage the person to go on.

But men are different. The concept of ‘tell me more’ doesn’t come in men. Men listen to gather information and not to empathize. They are silently observing what you are saying and trying to find a solution to the situation, whether you require it or not. They don’t feel the urge to reassure you physically of their attentiveness. Also they are not uncomfortable with silence as women are. They don’t care to fill in the blanks.

The Solution: change your mindset that says that he will look into your eyes, every time you strike a conversation. If you ask him a question or make a statement that requires a response, then give him some time to think. If even after a while he hasn’t replied then reiterate your point.
He is slumped over and not talking. So that means that something is definitely wrong and you must coax him out of it.
The Truth: there is something that is definitely bothering him. And since you love him so dearly and care about him you want to conduct that questionnaire round and find out what’s eating him away. When women are sad or disturbed, they say it through many types of body language. Right from crossed arms to the faraway look, everything says that she needs you to help her resolve the issue. She is seeking your support.

But when your guy shuts down, he is not at all inviting you or your help. In fact he is silently saying ‘I need some space to sort this out…privately.’ He just wants to be with himself for a while. If you try to enter this zone, then you are sure to mess things up.

The Solution: your man has gone in his cave so don’t push him. Once he finds a solution he is going to be his usual self again. What he requires at this moment is that you tell him you understand. So just kiss him on the forehead and just squeeze his hand and go about your work. That way he knows that you haven’t abandoned him and are respecting his need for space.
He says ‘I love you’ but it is simply not convincing. After all he is playing a video game or staring at his shoes while saying so. Why not look into your eyes?
The Truth: well if you are expecting your guy to look deep into your eyes and say those magical words then simply forget it. Men take this way of expressing things, quite cheesy just like a third grade film. It is not a matter of dishonesty that is reflected in his body language but his discomfort in the situation. Men are always geared not to show their emotions, as it is a sign of vulnerability. The more emotionally invested a man is in a situation the more restless he is going to be.

The Solution: when those magical words are said gently hold his face in your hands and with a warm eye contact say ‘I love you’. This closeness will make him feel secure and he will be relaxed with you. Add to his confidence and see the change next time.

4 Ways Guy Show Their Love:

Gesture 1 - He takes care of you with sweet unspoken treats. You send a quick sms saying your day at work is completely hopeless and instead of calling up he prepares dinner and runs a hot bath for you.

Gesture 2 - He tries to put together small things for you, like getting your choice of cds and your favorite coffee so that you are comfortable.

Gesture 3 - He shows his commitment to you. He tells that he is going to call you after 6 and water your plants when you are away and he does exactly that. Your approval means everything to him.

Gesture 4 - He tries to find a solution to every problem of yours. Right from the broken toaster to your irritating roommate, he wants to handle it all. After all men are natural problem solvers and that what he wants to do for you.

Reading Body Language

Reading Body Language is an interesting occupation. You will be fascinated to know the millions of body language that you and I have. In your day-to-day life, you hardly have time to focus on people's body language. Yet, if you give a bit of attention, you will know what a person is trying to say by reading their body language. You will come across a lot of information on How to Read Body Language.

Popular Body Language

You react differently at different times. Suppose you see a person who has crossed the arms, it can mean a lot of things. First of all, the person may seem arrogant and defensive. The person may be doubtful about you or may not have trust in you. It also says that the person does not want to speak to you. The person may be holding back something from you or is lying to you. The person may be protecting himself or herself from harsh words or just feeling cold.

There are many types of handshakes, which have different meanings. A confident person shakes his hand firmly, whereas a shy or nervous person handshakes limply.

When a woman is not moving her arms as she is walking, there is tension in her body, maybe something is on her mind. Anger and anxiety will often be at the root cause of this. If a woman walks slowly, assuming she is physically able, then it reflects that she lives in her own world while finding yours unimportant enough.

A liar can never look you straight in the eye. There is a persistent belief that people with shifty eyes are probably lying. But it is not foolproof as a liar may learn the trick of looking into your eyes easily. Putting your hands behind your back is a powerful gesture.

A person putting his or her hands in his pocket may mean that he or she is nervous, anxious or uncomfortable with the situation or hiding something from you. It can also mean that he or she is bored and uninterested. It gives the impression that the person is not confident.

Observe people and have fun reading body languages.

The Silent Signals of a Relationship

Body language the silent signals of a relationship. So you are hooked up with the best partner and yet things are not going the way you want. You know how to use your body and put across the most fantastic of impressions. But you simply can’t understand how to interpret your boyfriend or girlfriend body language.

According to love experts, non-verbal communication or body language carries much more significance in a relationship than what you actually say to each other. And the biggest challenge in reading your partner’s body language. Women being women and men being men, don’t always send the same silent signals. It doesn’t matter how compatible you are with each other, if you can’t understand each other’s body language then conflicts are sure to arise.

So make sure you don’t stumble over these unseen hurdles and have clear communication between the two of you. Here are some of the most commonly misinterpreted body languages between couples. Just read along and find the smart way to get around them.

Male Body Language

It is often hard to tell what men are thinking and feeling as they do not verbally communicate. So it becomes absolutely necessary to understand their mind. You can interpret them by their Body Language. Let us explore the Male Body Language.

A man's eyes will tell you if he is interested in you. When men are attracted to women, the pupils of their eyes tend to increase in size and blink more frequently. You will also know if a man is flirting with you if his body is pointing to your direction. If a man knows that he is in control then he will stand much closer to the person.

Body Language of Men will give you clue that they like you when they sit with their toes pointing to your direction. You will know that a man is flirting with you if he tends to look at you more. If you are in a group and the man is mostly facing you, it means that he likes you and that he is showing signs that he is attracted in you.

You will know a man is flirting with you by looking at his arms and legs. You may notice that when a man’s legs, knees and feet point to your direction, it means he is giving you signals that he is singling you out from a group and that his attention is focused only to you.

You will know that a guy is flirting with you by observing his body movements. Males move their body to make them look taller and firmer when they are attracted to females. They generally flex their muscles. They also fix their attire or run their hand through hair to appear more handsome. They spread their legs while sitting to show their dominance.

You can also learn from the pupils of a man’s eyes. When men are attracted to women, the pupils of their eyes tend to increase in size and blink more often.

The movement of a man's eyes will tell you if he is attracted to you. Men can give flirting signs through their eyes. You will know that a guy is interested in you if he looks at your one eye, then to the other eye and shifts downward to look at your nose and lips. This gives out the information that he likes the way you look. When a man puts his hands on his hips, it signifies that he is confident and self-assured.

Female Body Language

Women have more Body Language signs than men. Women are a mystery to men. It is hard for men to understand female psychology, so it makes sense that they become aware of Female Body Language.

There are several ways a female uses her body language to convey her interest and attraction to a man. Reading female body language can be simple if you pay attention to their natural progression. One of the ways to know whether a female is flirting is to notice her actions. If a woman twirls or flicks her hair while looking or talking to you, it shows her interest in you. This is her way of telling that she feels comfortable and feminine around you.

Nibbling of lower lip or licking her lip is also an important sign that says that the woman is into you. Neck is one of the sensuous part of female body. If a female touches her neck consciously or unconsciously, it reflects her attraction towards the man. A woman will smile and at the same time tilt her head to the left if she sees a potential male. This body movement says that she likes the man.

A male gets ideas about female flirting, when they stoke and toy objects like pen, sunglasses or wine glasses slowly. If a female puts her pen on her lip, it means that she wants a kiss. Turning the knee or leg towards a man shows that she is inclined to flirting. If a female is self-stroking, may be her neck, ankle and thigh, it means that she wants to be stroked by you.

Female Body Language includes using facial expressions to communicate much more emotion. In case you find her looking alternating between your eyes and lips, it means that she is interested in you. If a woman is showing interest in you, you will often find her checking her appearance. It might be running her hand through her hair, straightening and removing wrinkles from her dress, and many more.

If a woman glances at you more than normal, or you find her looking at you every now and then, that means she has soft corners for you. When a woman crosses and uncrosses her leg often, it interprets that she wants to be close to you.

You men must have understood few Body Languages of Female by now!

Body Language Sign

We all have different body language. We not only speak using our vocal cord but also through our Body Language. Body Language Signs will help you understand people even when they are not speaking to you. Signs are an interesting way of communication. Body movements say a whole lot of thing that can be used to analyze a person. There are various kinds of body language. Emotional body language, defensive body language, aggressive body language, submissive body language, open body language, relaxed body language.

Whether you are comfortable, attracted, not interested, open or stressful, can easily be understood by Body Language Sign. You can use your face, mouth, lips, tongue, eyebrow, hair, shoulders, arms, back, hips, legs and ankle as Body Language Signals. How you move your body parts become your body language sign.

Men use Body language Signs to show how strong they are, to rise above others and to let women know they are searching for a mate. A confident person will have body language of a leader while a coward will have body language of a timid person.

Men's body language is a straight forward non-verbal communication, whereas women can fake and pretend with their body language. Careful observance of body language will help you know what a person is thinking.

Body language is something that is within you and is very natural to you. Crossed arms are usually a sign of tension. The person may feel uncomfortable. If a person stands close to you or leans towards you, it means that the person is attracted to you. When a person looks directly at you while talking then it says that the person is interested in you. If the person is looking away while talking to you, then the person is definitely not interested in you. If you see women biting their lips, it means that they like you and are interested in you. When a person makes direct contact with your eyes for a long time, it represents feelings of sincerity and honesty.

Knowing the Signs of Body Language will be of utmost importance in understanding a person easily.

Body Language Lying

Its commonly believed that every human character has shades of grey in him hence making him vulnerable to lies sometimes. Body Language Lying offers an in depth study of how to detect lies in the person's behaviour. People in their workplace communicate great deal of information to each other without speaking through the use of body language and particular facial expressions. Psychologists believe that Body language is nonverbal form of inter personal communication well personified through the help of gestures. A person's body movements conveys not only feelings but also emotions through facial expressions and if there are cases of body language lying. These body movements indicate whether a person is receptive, angry, distracted, or happy. Many signs of Lying Body Language are commonly interpreted for those individuals who sit in a slumped position and frown.

There are many tips on knowing the varied signs related to body language lying as--

In case the person is lying his Physical expression will be limited with very few arm and hand movements thereby showing his tactful attitude. Also its important to note that Hand, arm and leg movement will generally be towards their own body as its commonly believed that the liar takes up less space while in conversation with others

Another important thing to note is the fact that a person who is lying will try to avoid any kind of eye- contact thereby revelling his inner motives since a direct eye contact would make that person aware of his cheap desires.

Body Language Gestures such as—Hands touching face, and throat also reveals the person's inner tension. Its important to note that touching or even scratching the nose and behind their ear is not regarded as a part of the normal etiquette.

Another way to get to know if that person is at the deceiving end or not is through the well consideration of timing and duration of conversation while at the same time making enough room for emotional gestures where one can easily display emotions. This kind display of emotion is looked as deceptive since there remains a cloud of doubt in them.

Flirting Body Language

Everyone in their life has flirted at least once either knowingly or unknowingly. Flirtatious actions include your conversation, physical contact and body language. You may have faced Body Flirting Language in your daily life. It is a very common practice to flirt with your body. Body language expresses your emotions and is more effective than verbal language. Most of the times you are not aware that you are communicating with your body.

How you make your moves while talking to a person of opposite sex or the way you breathe, the volume of your voice reflects your Flirting Language. Flirting Language consists of flirtatious gesture, eye contact, body posture and facial expressions.

Men and women use body language as a means of communication. Women generally send 5 times more sexual body language signals than men. When two people are relating to each other, the body language messages reveal how each person really feels about the other.

A casual touch can be casual and accidental. It may be a gentle touch to the arm as you laugh at the person's joke or a casual touch to your hand as you are engrossed in conversation. You can make sure that it is friendly and that the other person has a positive reaction to the touch.

You can accept the touch with a friendly gesture or a returned touch, then it seems that everything has gone well. If you move away or ignore the touch, then you are not open to the person. The touch basically assures the other person whether you have let down your defences and have accepted them

Attraction Body Language

Its commonly believed that body language forms a vital part in communicating one's ideas to each other. In other words attraction body language is an art that's widely read at different parts of the world. However, its important to note that different cultures have their own set of body language tools to communicate with each other as each gesture carries a different meaning of its own. Keeping in mind the need of the situation, its important to note that facial expressions too plays an important part in making Body Language for Men attractive to the opposite sex.

Here are some Tips to Make Body Language Attractive as.

its viable that a smile speaks a thousand words. A bare smile can make your near and dear ones feel more comfortable, even during times of distress and tension a smile can calm you as well as those beside you. Its important to note that we use facial expressions so as to communicate our emotions and sometimes the deep passions of love. If you're angry your facial looks speaks about the rightful emotions you're going through at that moment.

When someone talks to you, or while you' re in conversation with others its always advisable to make direct eye contact as this act creates a good feeling and also shows the positive side of you. Such acts show that you're confident and honest in your conversations with him/ her.

Body language for women should reveal their strong personality though sometimes a woman is judged more by the dress she wears rather than her accent and intellectual level. If you're talking to people outdoors, its advisable to open sunglasses as this act blocks in the way of good conversation while at the same time creates an uncomfortable ambiance.

When we meet strangers, its desirable to use the kind of body language which would help you to know that person in a much better way. In majority of the cases its seen that when people go overboard with their emotions, he  / she ends up in an embarrassing situation.

Also use that kind of body language which makes you feel more confident and shows you in good light.

Kissing

Friday, September 18, 2009
Kissing tips Wow! Something to surely look forward to. Close your eyes, and let your imagination take flight. There is a soft rug with a nice warm fire along with the twinkling lights of the candles… there is nothing more perfect and more spontaneous than to cuddle up in your beloved’s arms and share a warm kiss.

But have you ever stopped to wonder why we kiss each other? Whether it is a peck on the cheek, or a deep, sensational kiss that ignites to something hot, we all kiss. Well, one reason is, it is the most warm and nice gesture that can be shown to show your love and affection for someone. Without saying anything, you say it all.

There are many kisses, well at least one for each occasion. There is the peck on the cheek kiss, the girly kiss, flying kiss, and the madly passionate kiss. Also there is the kiss on the hand and cheek-pulling kiss. Whether it is your first kiss or the lip lock with your sweetheart, it completely captures the moment.

But there is a small catch as well. Kissing is an art and you need to master it. After all we all want to be a great kisser. So here are some kissing techniques along with the different types of kisses to help you out.

There are lots of plus points of kissing. It is the easiest emotion to transport. It just doesn’t matter where you are. You can steal a kiss at the gym, in a boardroom, and even in bathroom. Also you don’t need any equipment, except your lips of course. So even if you are in a rush, or planning to travel light you can still afford the luxury of a kiss.

Kissing also livens up things. So the next time you are stuck in the elevator, a never ending traffic jam or even a completely boooooring meeting, kiss someone you love and change the colour of the day completely. And there is good news for all those dieters. Kissing is totally non-fattening. So there is something to keep your mouths busy while avoiding to eat, smoke or drink. And in case you didn’t know, kissing is completely biodegradable, so you are helping the environment also.

You can kiss just about anyone and everyone. Whether your aunt, mom, dad, son or daughter, your wife or hubby, boyfriend or girlfriend and not to mention the President himself. So get ready with a fresh breath and kiss away.
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Make love a habit and the expression of it a ritual. Seal your love with a kiss and show your warmth and adoration for the one you care for.

Flirting

Flirting is one of the most natural ways to show interest and fascination in another person. Whether it is dating, or a romantic inclination, flirting is an expression to show a person you admire and like him or her. But ever wondered what makes a person attracted to the other? With good looks, friendly nature and magical chemistry being the main attributes, art of flirting is a baffling question. So let’s see how to master the art of flirting and make yourself more likeable by all.

Good lookers attract people the most. After all who doesn’t like to be around attractive people. Research says that women who have large eyes and small features are thought to be most attractive, and tall and strong men the most handsome. But does only the looks matter? The definition of beauty differs from person to person. Women think men love girls who are tall and thin. But men are more attracted to healthy women with well-maintained figures. Good looks definitely get you in the spotlight, but they definitely don’t make you the master of flirting. The art of flirting has many things in it.

Here are some of the most important things to take care of when playing the flirting game. Whether you are in for a serious long term relationship, or some light courtship, these flirting tips will sure make you the most likeable and attractive personality of all.

Body Language And Eye Contact

Body language and eye contact are two most important aspects in the art of flirting. Without saying even a word, lot is conveyed through the body language. Good looks matter, but only to an extent. As partners start knowing each other, the initial attraction is not enough to keep them together. So even if you are not a great looker, no need to despair. You must have met so many people in your life that have dynamic personality and charisma that automatically pulls everyone towards them. They don’t require good looks to attract anyone.

So as you get all ready with the perfect make up and fine dressing, give a thought to your body language also. If you want to attract someone like a magnet then this is important. The body language is the mirror to your inner thoughts. It includes your whole body right from your face, the way you speak and the way you conduct yourself. Eye contact is also an important part of the body language.

When you are introduced to someone, make eye contact. If you look away it is a hint that you are not interested or shy or aloof or worse you are trying to hide something significant. Now who will start a relationship in these shady circumstances?

But making eye contact also doesn’t mean to stare at someone in a threatening or blank manner. You will surely make the person run away. Let your eyes show interest and admiration for the person. Flirting allows you to be a bit naughty also. So say all those naughty feelings with your eyes and see the person completely fall for you. One of the major hints of whether she or he likes you is the increase in the eye contact. You will notice that they will gaze at you in an admiring way for a second or two longer than the normal time. They will also keep glancing at you to see your different reactions. Now you know why we call it stealing glances.

Is He or She Interested?

One more way to know if your flirting hints are going in the right direction is by observing whether they are standing a bit closer to you than the normal distance of about 1.2m. If they are standing close to you then definitely it is a sign of interest. But if a person tries to move away from you then they are trying to avoid you and indicate disinterest.

Open body language is another positive sign of flirting. Open body language means that he or she will not have their arms folded or wouldn’t absently fiddle with something as you strike a conversation. If someone has their arms folded across their body it means they are in a defensive mood. If you are sitting, they will cross their legs away from you. Also see if your partner puts a hand up to their face. This is also a sign of showing disinterest in a person. But on the other hand their eyes are wide open and eyebrows high, then it is an indication of liking and admiration.

Smile

Smile is one of the most beautiful expressions of the face. It completely changes the look of a person. When you are talking to someone who really likes you, then you will always notice a smile on his or her face. You can always make out if the smile is a genuine smile or pretence. Smiling is the most simple way to say you like and love to be around someone. So when flirting, don’t feel shy and hide within yourself.

Flattery and Compliments

Flirting and flattery always go hand in hand. After all a bit of flattery doesn’t harm anybody. Whether you meet through online dating, or at a bar, there is always something sweet and nice that you can say. Compliment her on the way she looks. If you wish to compliment a guy then talking about his physique is a good idea. Also make conversation, showing interest in their hobbies and things of common interest. Remember not to talk too much about yourself. You want to know the other person also. Making the full conversation concentrated on you will tag you as self-centered.

Flirting is a fantastic way to meet new people and begin new relationships. So practice these different flirting tips and ideas and become the master of art of flirting.

Body Language

Body Language is a type of communication where your body speaks to others rather than verbal words. Moving your arms in a certain way or rolling your eyes or any facial expression suggests that you are showing a certain kind of body language. Body languages can in fact tell a observer what you are thinking at that particular time. Language of Body is like a mirror to your personality.

Improve Your Body Language

In case you are bored, you eyes will be not focused or your head may be tilted to sideways. At times you yawn due to boredom. There are times when you cross your arms, it may mean that you are putting up a barrier with other people nearby. At times when you are confused, you scratch your head. When you disbelief something, you either scratch your ears or chin.

You may develop a certain kind of body language unconsciously. In fact, you are not aware that you are showing a certain kind of behaviour. Your body language says a lot about your personality. So you need to consciously improve your body language. In the beginning you must keep track how you walk, stand, sit and move your hand.

Chasing Dreams

Do not sit with you legs and arms crossed. It gives the impression that you defensive. Have eye contact with others but make sure you do not stare or ogle. The person on the other side may feel something is wrong with you. Do not slump but sit straight. Do not be too alert, it may seem that you are tensed.

Do not touch your face too often as it may disturb or make the other person uneasy. Try and smile often but that does not mean you keep on smiling. Too much smiling will mean that you are not taking the other person seriously. Relax your shoulders and be calm. Do not tap your fingers on the table, it shows that you are nervous.

Always keep your head up and do not avoid eye contact when you are speaking to someone. Do not look down. Use your hands more confidently when you are discussing an issue but do not over do it.
Be relaxed, confident and positive. Have a clear mind.

Blind Date

Break away all hesitations and charm your way through a blind date.

Blind date is one of the most exciting, thrilling and suspense filled dates that you can ever have with a person. Blind dates are not threat alarms that go off without a warning and ruin the whole evening. With a little bit of tact, confidence and smile you can sail through the almost any blind date.

Live the thrill and excitement of a blind date completely with some great blind date tips to help you along the way. Every blind date is not a disaster in disguise. Some even mature to long lasting, relationships. Open up to the new vistas of the dating game and welcome someone new and special into your world.

Planning for the Big Date

Planning is the key for making any date run smoothly. When you plan out for your date select a venue that is easy to reach and allows you to talk to your date comfortably. But if your date doesn’t approve of the place, be open to go somewhere were you both would be comfortable. Be prepared to handle any type of situation.

What to say on a Blind Date

Saying the right thing at the right time and right place is the most important way to build a relationship with someone. Always be polite and soft when speaking to your date. Remember both of you are equally nervous. And in these delicate situations, sparks can fly easily. Don’t end everything, before it has even started.

You have so many things to speak of when you are on a blind date. After all you are meeting the person for the first time. Learn about the hobbies, likes, dislikes and other interesting things about your date. The topics are endless just select the right words.

Focus on your Date

Sometimes things don’t start off on a right note and we tend to loose interest in the person. But you should remember that you are meeting your date for the first time. Give it some time. To build on a relationship and to show respect for your blind date, give your complete and undivided attention to the person.

Maintain a consistent eye contact and nod in agreement when making conversation. Let the other person know that you are attentive to him/her.

Don’t Show Off

Showing off is definitely off the list. It more than often backfires. Showing off your latest watch, mobile phone and wearing too much off flashy clothes might hurt your date. First get to know your blind date and then display your proud possessions. If you work that way on the first date only, then it is a sign of showing the other person down.

Dress Well for your Blind Date

I guess everybody knows that the first impression is the last impression. So take special care about your appearance. So be very clean, take a shower, and smell good. The way your present yourself says a lot about ones personality.

Be a Friend

Dating is not all about being dead romantic and passionate . Instead it is your chance for letting the other person feel relaxed and comfortable in your company. Approach your date with a friendly smile and chat away as you would do with some friend. Don’t flirt. A relationship can only grow if you give it proper breathing space.

A Perfect Ending to a Perfect Date

Things went on absolutely great and you want to meet up again. Congrats! You found yourself someone special, but that doesn’t mean that you will jump down someone’s throat. Show you completely enjoyed yourself. And then politely ask if he/she will like to meet up again.

Making Conversation On Online Dating Services

Online dating services allow you to chat and have personal discussions on the telephone. Avoid being flamboyant and wordy in an effort to impress.

Dating on the net can be a fun thing to do as you can chat with anybody anywhere in the world, but if you are not careful you might be caught in some interesting situation that you might not want to be involved in the first place. Once, I chatted with a lady on the net for many months without knowing that she is a guy with some other motive. Anyway, that "lady" lost interest in me when "she" realized that I know "she" is a guy. Thank god, "she" did not pursue any further with me as I naively provided some personal information's about myself. From then on, I am very careful about revealing certain information's about myself on the cyberspace especially at the initial stage of just knowing the person. The Online Dating Tips below will elaborate more on this matter.

Try to know the person well enough before meeting up with the person. How well is consider well enough ? That will depend on your judgment, nobody can exactly tell you that you have know that person very well. Try to get some idea from the Online Dating Tips provided below, maybe you can find some answer to this question. If you are meeting the person the first time, the meeting place is very important. The dating tips below will tell you more about meeting somebody new through the cyberspace.

Be yourself

Once you have identified a few people with whom you might get along, start chatting with a formal tone. Keep your side of the chat short and if there are obvious areas of disconnect between you and a person, stop chatting immediately.

Be clear about the kind of people you do not get along with. There may be certain attitudes that you do not like. If you want to avoid long distance relationships, do not allow such discussion to continue.
Online dating services allow you to be discerning in your selection of people and maintaining conversations that are likely to lead to a fruitful conclusion. Feel free to exercise choice without making adjustments that will make it difficult to build a lasting relationship.

Be open about what you are looking for and how you look to grow as a person in a relationship. At the same time, talk about activities you like to undertake in your spare time. This gives a viewer the awareness that you have clear views and that you are a thinking person.

Be a good listener

Allow the person with whom you are chatting to talk to you. If the person you have chosen is willing to talk about past experiences, expectations in a relationship, thoughts about various things, let the conversation flow.

If the person tends to ramble, bring the person back to the original point with gentleness. There may be latent feelings of pain let the person talk about it. This kind of listening tells you whether you want your communication to continue or prefer to stop the chat.

The online dating services allow you to keep your options open until you have found a suitable person to chat with. People who are carrying baggage from past relationships or have lofty expectations of the person they are looking for come open when they are chatting with a person who is willing to listen.

You are better able to understand the person's statements and the real intent in the background.

Probe gently

Has the person you are chatting with said something and suddenly back tracked from raising the point? Online dating services attract people from various backgrounds.

You want to avoid contact with potentially dangerous people, people who are carrying on serious chats with many people at the same time or hiding facts about themselves. Listen to your instincts, especially when you find yourself chatting with a person who does not seem to be saying the truth.

Do not get into an ugly confrontation with the person about contradictions that a person has made, instead use maturity on online dating services and probe the person with leading questions. If the person becomes uncomfortable, be open about why you are asking the question. Avoid repeating requests for details since this will raise the hackles of the person you are chatting with.

Online Dating

Dating or courtship has for long been one of the most beautiful and perfect ways for lovers to connect to each other. A smile, shy glances and warmth in the heart all combine to make the magic potion of love. Whether single, or coupled, dating adds the special spark in a relationship and keeps the fire of passion and intimacy burning.

With time, dating has changed its definition. From simple courtship to online dating, the language of love has many facets. Online dating or net dating is the trend of today, connecting people across the horizon. If said in a simple manner, online dating has completely done away with the concept of distance. A boy sitting in New York can find a dating partner in Paris. There are different dating sites to connect lovers. By adding just a bit of personal information just about anybody can log into the online dating world.

One of the easiest ways to meet thousands of singles on a click of button is through the net. So select from the different websites offering online dating services and get ready to meet your dream man or woman. Here we are with different ideas and tips to help you get the best online dating partner.

Getting Started with Online Dating

A right beginning helps in keeping things simple and on the right track in the future. Create an online profile to chat on the web. Also most of the online dating website have a detailed questionnaire trying to get your details. Give in the truth but remember not to pour out your complete life story. Also most of the online dating services offer security features to all their members. So no need to give your cell number if you don’t want to. Your e-mail id will be more than sufficient.

Being Net Smart

You are on the web, so the most important thing is to be smart and alert. If you find someone interesting from the dating channel and decide to meet, then let the first date be during day time. Also don’t give your address till you have met your date in personal for at least a few times.

Share the Online Dating Experience

Online dating is a wonderful way to meet thousands of singles right from your desk. You must have heard many success stories from dating on the net. If nothing else you definitely make good friends for a lifetime.

Also don’t keep that feeling in your mind that people who go for online dating are shy and dull. People who are very busy with their careers or love to meet new people are among the highest ratio of people on the net.

So share this new feeling of dating and love. Let the journey from courtship to love make you grow as an individual and help you meet your soul mate.

Sweetheart

Sweetheart! the soft and tender voice of love and soulmates. When a person who is closest to you, dearest to you and truly loved then the soul says sweetheart. One of the most powerful expressions of love is the way we call our beloved. It is a call from the heart and is sure to touch the strings of our dearest.

Sharing the different hues of love is this page on sweetheart. Whether you say goodnight sweetheart, or present a beautiful rose to your sweetheart the affections of the heart are said aloud.

Each one of us sometime in our lives have fallen in love and have tried to voice the silent feelings one way or the other. So let’s take a quick trip down the memory lane and see the different stages of love and romance experienced by each one of us. Also get to know all about the shades and usage of sweetheart as a word in our everyday life.

American Sweetheart

American sweetheart is popular for depression glasses. These are one of the most popular depression glass patterns. This glass is given the name sweetheart because of its soft pink color. It can also be called the glass of love. On this Valentine, gift this American sweetheart glass to your beloved and show your true feelings.

High School Sweetheart

Well we all know about high school sweetheart. The first time you feel in love, the first prom dance, your first valentine… yes! High school sweetheart id your first crush, your first true love. The sweetness of the young love can only be expressed through a word like sweetheart!

Sweetheart Poems

Remember the beautiful love poems you wrote to your sweetheart? well that’s what is known as sweetheart poems. There are many different romantic poems that are perfect way to express your love to your beloved. So the next time you write a beautiful poem to your sweetheart, why not scribble the words sweetheart poems on the top.

Sweetheart Day

Well, Valentine’s Day is not the only day of the celebration of love. Love and romance is in full bloom on sweetheart day as well. Sweetheart day is celebrated on 23rd August. So this time don’t miss out on this opportunity to present something special to your partner.

Teen Sweetheart

Teen love is one of the most romantic times in ones life. Whether it is casual dating, or the first crush your teen sweetheart will always remain close to your heart, no matter what happens. So express your love openly and say I love you once more.

Girlfriends

She is the center of your life, she always brings a smile, her looks are incomparable…she is your Girlfriend!

Your girlfriend is your partner, your friend and your soulmate. When no one was there to believe in you, there she was standing tall and making you smile. No doubt she is inseparable and so close to you.

But how to keep the romance alive in your relationship and see the cute smile on your sweetheart’s face forever? Well it is not as difficult as you think. Romance and happiness is one of the most important ingredients in any relationship. If the both of you are compatible and happiness sits on your lap, then things will surely work out.

Here are some easy and friendly tips to keep your girlfriend happy all the time. Keep the spark alive in your relationship and let the magic of love fill your world.

Give Flowers

Whether you are proposing to your girlfriend or celebrating your first anniversary together, flowers are always special and romantic expression of love. You can make your girl happy with a single red rose or a whole bouquet of fresh flowers. Today with online flowers offering you instant delivery, you don’t have to work too hard to fill her world with fragrance.

Picnics

Generally when we think of spending time with our girlfriend, it is candle light dinner or a movie night. But romance is perfectly enjoyable in the daytime as well. So why not plan a picnic for the two of you. It is going to be a great way to spend some quality time together on a leisurely afternoon.

Love Messages

You must agree with me that girlfriends are sentimental. They love the different expressions of love. So why not write simple love messages and love notes to your girlfriend and make your cute girlfriend happy.

Kisses

Kissing is something that both the girlfriend and boyfriend are going to enjoy completely. Whether it is a romantic date, or just a walk hand in hand along the road, you always have a reason to kiss your girlfriend in an affectionate manner. Sometimes a tinge of sensuality is also not that bad. There are different types of kisses like French kiss, butterfly kiss, smooch and so on. So become an expert and see your girlfriend go completely crazy about you. Find out more with the different kissing tips.

Love Letters

When was the last time you wrote a love letter to your girlfriend? You must have received many, right? So, put in a little effort and write some romantic love letters to your partner and say what’s in your heart.

Boyfriends

What is the first thought that comes to mind when we think of Boyfriends? A friend, a companion a soulmate and a confidant. Boyfriends become a part of our lives and fill the world with understanding, affection and love. No doubt each one of us wants a boyfriend or a girlfriend.

Nowadays when one thinks or talks about boyfriends and girlfriends the thought that comes to mind is love affair. It has become a way of showing that you are attractive and is admired by someone.

But when we take a closer look, boyfriends are not about reflections of relationships in the society, but a special bond that is shared between two persons. People make boyfriends and girlfriends at all stages of life and the depth of the relationship becomes the deciding factor to what level is their relationship strong and mature.

Here are some of the different stages of boyfriends.

Boyfriend Buddy

Boyfriend buddy means, someone who is your best friend as well as your soulmate. Many of us, make good friends at a young age and with time develop a relationship with them that is one step ahead than simple friendship. This is the romantic friendship buddy stage. As the relationship grows, boyfriend turns into a more serious kind of relationship that may in the long run develop into wedlock.

Romantic Boyfriends

The other kind of relationship that starts on a romantic note and then develops into friendship can be said as romantic boyfriends. This kind of relationship happens on a more mature stage. When you like a guy on an affectionate note and develop a relationship with him then the relation is special and deeply romantic. You may say you have fallen in love and experiencing a new kind of relationship.

Ex-boyfriend

We simply hate the word ex-boyfriend. But sometime or the other in our life we experience this heartbreak. No matter on what grounds have the relationship ended, it always devastates us. Somewhere down the line we feel we are poor in maintaining the balance and adjustment that is required in any relationship.

Steady Boyfriend

We all must have heard about steady boyfriends and girlfriends. Well it is nothing more than being in a relationship with a particular person for a long duration of time. This kind of boyfriend and girlfriend are committed to each other and live their relationship based on understanding, love and support.
So no matter what stage of the relationship you are in, relationships mean nurturing and taking care of them. So spend time with your boyfriend and girlfriend and make each day romantic, special and binding to its true sense.

Friendship

Friendship is one of the closest bonds shared between two individuals. As rightly put forward, friendship is one soul two bodies. Friends build their relationship on trust, commitment and love. It is one of the purest relationships that can ever be. Closest to our heart, friends are our companions and partners in the ups and downs of life.

But what makes friends and friendship so special? One can say that it is one such relationship that is selected by us and not given by our parentage. No doubt that’s why friends are always a part of our extended family. Our life is never complete without a friend. A person with similar thoughts, beliefs and ideologies is one who is our best friend. We can share anything with our friends right from our happy moments to the most lonely times of our life.

Remember those days when you first went to watch a movie with your friends, or you when you bunked classes and had a long day out. From pranks to secrets, friends are a part of all. And like the many shades of emotions, there are many shades of friendship as well. There are childhood friends and there are soulmates as well. So here are some of the different hues of friendship that each one of us shares in our life in one way or the other.

Soulmates

Soulmates are the companions of life. A person who knows you inside out is a soulmate. This is a romantic kind of friendship. Soulmates are friends for the lifetime. Knowing what the other is thinking and feeling without saying a single word is one of finest ways of defining a soulmate. Of course there are different types of soulmates.

Boyfriends and Girlfriends

There are many interpretations of the relationship of boyfriends and girlfriends. But one of the most simplest and appropriate ways to put across this friendship relationship is by saying that they are dating partners. Two people sharing a romantic relationship during the courtship period are called boyfriends and girlfriends. Boyfriends and girlfriends share most of their time with each other and connect to each other with the expressions of love. If this friendship relationship works out then they in the future become soulmates or even life partners. It is simply a wonderful feeling to see a relationship grow from friendship to life partners.

Online Friendship and Pen pals

In the age of e-mails and internet chats, online friendship is something that has become the most common forms of friendship. Breaking the barriers of distance now people can communicate sitting from any part of the world. Previously this was known as pen pals where people used to get connected to each other through snail mail. But with e-mails and chat one can stay connected all the time. This type of friendship is long distance friendship and is generally kept on a casual note.

Best Friends

Closest of all are our dearest best friends. From fights to laughter, best pals share all. Best friends start their journey from good friends and with time become our closest companions. They are the people whom we can tell any secret and share anything. They are our confidant just like our family.

Love Words

Love words are one of the most romantic and grand ways to say you love someone dearly. Sweet love words from your sweetheart are like music to the ears. There is nothing more special than to hear the one you love whisper the words of love to you. There is no special season of love words. Whenever said, it means something entirely new.

Communication is like the fuel to romance and love. The words you choose make all the difference in your relationship. Making a relationship strong, blissful and romantic is the key channel to make a couple grow in love.

So now we know the love words are the guiding force to a relationship. So here are some of the love words to that always click for your sweetheart. So the next time you want to say something special and romantic select from one of these love words to make an impression.
  • If your kisses were wishes I would make a 1000 wishes.
     
  • Life has never been better since you came into my life.
     
  • I can’t believe we have been together for so long. I guess time flies when you are having fun.
     
  • I love the way you love me.
     
  • I love the way you make me feel.
     
  • You make me feel so special.
     
  • I need you in my life.
     
  • You just made my day.
     
  • I can’t get enough of your hugs and kisses.
     
  • I am not waiting for a knight in shining armor – mine has already arrived.
     
  • Life without your love is a life I’d rather not live.
     
  • I love you with all my heart and soul.
     
  • I will go to the ends of the world for you.
     
  • I don’t know what I would do without you in my life.
     
  • Honey.
     
  • Sweetheart.
     
  • I promise to love you forever.
     
  • You make me laugh.
     
  • Darling.
     
  • You just make me feel so good.
     
  • I never want you to stop loving me.
     
  • I apologize.
     
  • You are so funny.

Love Relationship

Relationships… the word has a whole universe enclosed in itself. With happiness, joy harmony and disharmony, people experience the different hues of our social life. Whether it is long distance relationships, love relationships, or even dating relationships it requires to be handled carefully and nurtured with love and affection.

One of the biggest challenges of modern day love relationships between couples is striking a perfect balance between work-love-life. More often than usual the scale is titled to one of either sides and the so-called balance is absolutely lost.

If we think hard and try to look at the reasons why a relationship fails then the quick answers would be work, financial concerns, household jobs and sexual relations. But if we look deeper, it is simply us as a whole.

Couples disagree on things like which newspaper will come to the colors of curtain…just about anything and everything. And the only solution is a conscious decision to promise to maintain the right balance.

So here are some simple tips and relationship advice to help you keep the fire of togetherness and romance warm and alive forever. These ideas for love relationship will help you see yourselves differently and help you grow as a couple.

Maintaining a Work-Life Balance

Take the required bound and save your relationship from going the downhill way. One of the prime concerns of any love relationship is the over demanding work life. Discuss your job priorities with your partner and work out free time for both of you. You don’t want to lose track of each other in this rat race.

Spend Quality Time

Each couple has a different definition of quality time in a love relationship. For you it may be spending one day in a week with your sweetheart, whereas for your partner the whole weekend may seem less. In such a case, both of you need to find a middle path.

Work and Love

When the whole life seems to be circling around work and more work, then the best way to give time to your love relationship is with a bit of sex. Get that sparkle in your eyes as you cuddle up into each other and relive your honeymoon days. Why not reserve the Saturday afternoons and Sunday evenings to let your bodies speak to each other and forget everything else. You must agree, that relationships are a mixed bag and requires a bit of everything. So a bit of romance, a tinge of naughtiness and hot sex and your cocktail relationship is ready!

Laugh Together

Have a good laugh together. Share a common ground to enjoy some things together. You guys may have different hobbies and still find a way to connect to each other. Enjoy each other’s company, no matter what you do.

Understand Each Other

The success of any love relationship is based on adjustments. Remember adjustments are different from compromise. Whether it is love life or work, no one person should dominate all the evenings. With the fast paced life we all are living, there is hardly any time to socialize. So the best way to do is steal time. Don’t take the love of your partner for granted. When you can’t ignore your boss and do your best to keep him happy, why not the same for the most important person in your life. Have a clear communication and spend time with your sweetheart.

Love is Sacred

In today’s world, love definitely is sacred. Nothing can kill a love relationship more quickly than canceling your romantic plans. Don’t let family and work interfere in your dating relationships or candle light dinners. Treat them as the most important time you can spend with your beloved.

There are different phases in every relationship. Dealing with the different relationship issues is a challenge that needs to be constantly worked on. So make your love relationship intimate and beautiful and follow the above mentioned simple tips and ideas to add magic to your relationships.

Soul Mates

Love happens...Relationships take time and work.

As the two become one; quotations, love letters and romance flows free. These are all signs of true soulmates. Take your love to new levels of togetherness with wedding ideas, gifts and romantic honeymoon vacations.

Soul mates are the sharers of the eternal bond of togetherness, companionship and true love. Connecting through heart, mind and soul they are friends for life. Soul mates often connect with each other in a very unique and special way.

But how do we know who is our soul mate? You love the person completely and wholly and can sense everything about your lover. You are happy together and can’t think of separation ever. Well, it seems like you have found your soul mate and friend for life.

But like all relationships you have to work even on this one. There are different kinds of soul mates. Understanding what kind of a soul mate you have got or what kind of a soul mate you are, will help you to make your relationship stronger and everlasting. Read below the four types of soul mates and see which one fits best for you and your lover.

The Romantic Soul Mate
  • Feels complete and satisfied in a loving and caring relationship.
     
  • Seeks fulfillment in a relationship and gains confidence and self-identity from it.
     
  • Believes in sharing everything and all secrets from the most trivial to the most important.
     
  • Believes in constantly working on a relationship with spending quality time on it.
The romantic soul mate believes in showing their love and affection to their soul mates all the time. A romantic will shower you with gifts and plan romantic getaways. However, sometimes they tend to go overboard. Even if your soul mate is also a romantic it becomes a little too much in everyday life. It will begin to wear the other person out.

A romantic soul mate should learn how to balance the flow of events. It’s not wrong to want to do special things all the time, but you don’t want to scare the other person off. True romantics know how to maintain the perfect balance, making their lovers come back for more and more.

The Sharing Soul Mate
  • Believes in sharing a romantic and love filled life as the best way to grow and change things for the better.
     
  • Feels complete and satisfied when sharing oneself with the soul mate.
     
  • Views sharing dreams, hopes, aspirations as the way to communicate the message of love.
     
  • Thinks intimate relationship with ones soul mate is to give meaning and direction to their lives together.
A sharing soul mate believes in the formula of sharing and caring. To them if you don’t open up and talk your heart out you are not being completely faithful to your partner. The first thing they do when they come back from work is to look for their soul mate and talk over the day. They like to involve their mates in all their lives activities right from business to leisure. Every good thing including a bonus to the annual office party is shared with their partners.

Also they share the disappointments in life. Every sorrow, hurt and grief is also shared with their soul mates. This can sometimes weigh down the partner as they can feel buried under the ups and downs of their soul mates life.

A sharer soul mate has to learn to bite their tongue once in a while and give their partner some breathing space. It’s great to share as it gives opportunity to grow and develop as a couple. But then too much of everything is bad.

The Constant Soul Mate
  • Takes their relationship as an opportunity to grow in their respective ways.
     
  • Accepts their partners as individuals and expects the same type of acceptance for themselves also.
     
  • Loves their independence and doesn’t like to be controlled.
     
  • Fully enjoys the intensity of their relationship.
An independent soul mate is just the opposite of a romantic soul mate. They give a lot in a relationship but always save guard their independence. They make a circle around themselves and don’t like anyone to come within it. Yet independent soul mates are very enjoyable and happy people. They constantly work on their relationships, trying to bring out the best in both of them.

Their careers are their first love. If their partners share the interest in the same career path, then things will turn out great, bonding them further. But otherwise they can be pretty much left out. An independent soul mate has to learn to share and involve the partner in one’s life. After all love is all about growing together.

To put it all together; there is someone out there for everybody. It is up to us to find our soul mate and hold onto it. None of us are perfect, but every relationship can work out if we promise in our hearts to make it work.

A soul mate is someone who is meant to be loved and cherished in good and bad times. Be there and stand through it all.

Through sickness and in health
Through good and bad times
Till death do us apart.

Love Hearts

Ever wondered why the emotions of love are always related to the heart? Well that’s because it’s the heart that beats to the rhythm of different emotions. Of course one can see it in a scientific way also, but love hearts is a bond that’s inseparable. Right from the beginning of time, lovers have promised undying love to each other and pledged their hearts.

Mesmerizing this beautiful feeling we bring together this section of love hearts. Here you will find some great tips to win someone’s heart and express the undying love for each other. Each of these tips is perfect for your girlfriend, boyfriend, wife or husband. Don’t let love pass you by. Select these love heart tips and welcome a romantic valentine into your lives once and forever.
Tips to Win Her Heart
When it comes to women, men have much to accomplish. Here are some absolute Do’s for any and every man, if he wants to win her heart.

Appearance Matters!

A guy wants that his girl should like a princess at all times. So all men out there, today a woman also wants her man to be at his best appearance at all times. Woman like their men to be strong and masculine but that is not an excuse to turn up unwashed, unshaven and smelly. A man has to love his girl and also win her heart over.

Just shave regularly, shower and keep clean. After all she is not your mom to clean you up. Appear, as you would wish her to appear. Take care of your personal hygiene as well. Oily hair, dirty nails and untidy shoes can turn anybody off, least to say your girlfriend. So just pay a little bit of extra effort and enjoy the romantic company of a pretty woman.

Fashion and Style

Men think, dressing is so simple for guys. After all how many options are truly available? But once more this is a complete under statement, and you know it in your heart. Develop a taste of your own. Avoid wearing bright colors in the morning. But also don’t appear always in the shades of blues and greys. Feel the spirit of your heart and wear accordingly. Have a varied wardrobe with jeans, trousers and suits. Dress as the occasion demands.

Habits

Habits are one thing that becomes an invisible part of us. As the good habits reflect easily, same way bad habits are also quite easily seen. In the case of love hearts your habits play an important role. Smoking is one thing that is a big NO. Smoking is not only injurious to your own health but also to other people. And yes it is completely out of style if that’s your excuse.

Drinking alcohol is generally accepted. But the question is the amount and frequency. If you are opening a bottle of champagne to celebrate an occasion it is ok. But if every evening you end up in a bar and are the last one to leave then it’s not a popularity trait.

Shower Her with Gifts

All women love to be pampered. So surprise her with flowers and gifts. These small gestures speak volumes in itself and is the perfect expression of love hearts. If your love is expressed through heart then the colors are more beautiful and natural. Share her interests and her dreams. Don’t make the mistake to forget important dates like birthday and anniversaries. With these small steps, a man can come closer and closer to winning the love heart of his girl.
Love Hearts Ideas
In the matters of the heart, things are never certain. You can love a man, date him, and still feel that you are actually heading nowhere with him. Definitely he is loving, caring and remembers the important dates. But still your love life is headed nowhere. So here are some tips to win a man’s heart. Take some bold and simple steps and take charge of the love hearts matter.

Say from the Heart!

You have some matters hidden in your heart. Come out with it and say it directly. Whether it is about spending more time together or talking about common matters of the heart, say it clearly. Men can only understand if you say it. Hinting doesn’t work well with them.

Show You Care

Love hearts is all about opening your heart to the emotions of love. So show openly that you love and adore him. Although you may call the shots at times, but don’t walk over his male ego. Make him feel he is the man and fully in charge. You don’t have to act helpless. Just throw some hints and let him act his way through. The more you involve him the more will he love you.

Pamper Him

As the old saying goes, the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Today guys want women to be modern and working. But if you cook like his mom, then there is no stopping you. Make simple dishes. There are many recipe books to help you win his heart and love.

Share His Interests

Driving is his passion but you are completely scared of it. Well lady, then work on it. Again love hearts is about sharing and growing in love. Take interest in his basketball, sports cars and computer games. If nothing else keep him company.

So there you have it. Some good and simple ways to win his or her heart. Whether you've been dating for a long time or just starting off, these love hearts tips will work wonders for you.

The trick is to know the secret to your lovers heart.

Love Paradise

What is the feeling of love? Is it the dreamy feeling of floating in air, or all sweaty and nervous? Each one of us will define love differently. But yet all of us agree on one thing. Love makes us smile. When was the last time, you looked at yourself in the mirror and smiled? If not lately, then why not today! Give it a try!

Love paradise is all about making you smile. Whether it is romantic love, dating tips or warm and sensual french kiss, it will surely give you a feeling of elation and delight. So let’s enter this world of happiness, warmth and togetherness and spend moments of rejoicing in this paradise.

Let’s take a look what we have in this happy paradise of ours and incorporate it into our everyday life. After all love is not only for special days like Valentine, but a feeling that surrounds us all the time. Make each moment memorable, every day romantic as here you will find different ideas and tips to live every moment to the fullest.
Enjoy, and wish you the best of luck!

How to Write Love Letters

Thursday, September 17, 2009
How to write love letters? How to pour your heart out and not sound totally clueless? Love letters always seem to be a challenge. Though the web has so many sample love letters to help all the lovers out there, writing one of your own probably seems next to impossible. But hey all the romantic lovers out there, you don’t really have to be Shakespeare or very creative to pen down your emotions. What makes a love letter special is the personal touch that it has, expressing the undying feelings of the heart. This year as Valentine’s Day once more comes around, do it the old-fashioned way and send a romantic hand written love letter. Yes e-mails are faster, but then can you see the shy smile on her face as you give her the love letter? So let’s start with the basics and see the steps on how to write love letters.

Ideas for Writing Love Letters

Have you run out of ideas for writing love letters? Or are you looking for some sweet excuse to drop a romantic love letter for making your valentine’s day special. No matter what’s your reason here are some foolproof ideas for grabbing that pen and paper and start writing the love letters.
  • Let’s start all over again…
     
  • Happy Anniversary Sweetheart…
     
  • I love you too much. (Last night is unforgettable)
     
  • Please forgive me.
     
  • I miss you. (Please come back home soon)
     
  • I am ready to do whatever it takes. (Let’s get back together)
     
  • Sorry we didn’t agree (let’s kiss and make up)
     
  • There are too many things between us. (let’s be as we were before.)
     
  • I want to spend the rest of my life with you. (I am ready for commitment)
     
  • It’s just not working out. (it’s time to go separate ways)

Create Ambience

The first thing to do as you settle to write a love letter is to create a romantic ambience. Get yourself in the mood. Some soft music, peace and adequate light to write down the love letter is all you need to get started. If you are tired and had a bad day then avoid writing the love letter on that day. Maybe a weekend or when you are more relaxed is a good idea. You can’t end a love letter in a hurry. You can also place a picture of him or her next to your writing table to feel more connected to your lover.

Writing Accessories

Getting proper stationary is very important. Select some good quality paper in cream or white. Those pink papers are definitely out of style. One can also use a thick card stock, as it is strong and durable. Your lover will like to keep this love letter as a souvenir and it is best to select something that can endure the test of time. Use a flair pen in black or brown. Please avoid those blues, reds and green colored pens. You are not making a kid birthday card.

Opening Salutation

Most of us are used to a ready-made salutation like ‘dear xyz’. But when we are talking about how to write a love letter then it has to be something more than just the obvious. Use your lover’s first name with a romantic salutation like ‘dearest Jane’ or ‘darling Peter’. Also remember to date your love letter (month, day, year). This love letter will be treasured and each time it would be read it would take your sweetheart to that time of romantic feelings.

How to Begin Love Letters

As you start writing your love letter begin by stating your reason for writing. For example you can say, ‘I have been awake every night, trying to find just the right words to say what’s in my heart. But my love is too deep to put simply in a few words…” take your lover down the memory lane by reliving some of the romantic moments both of you shared together. And then go on to the body of the letter.

Body of the Letter

The main body of the letter should tell why you feel in love with him or her. Avoid being too casual or formal. A love letter should be respectful with a serious note to it. You don’t want your lover to be laughing as he reads along if you don’t intend to write a funny love letter. Add some romantic quotes and sayings to describe your emotions or describe the special characteristics of your lover. Open your heart and say what you want to say but don’t jump from one thought to the other. Be sincere and honest and very soon you will feel that how to write a love letter is not that big a mystery after all.

Be Expressive

Expressing your feelings is easier said than done. To help you out here are some romantic expressions that you can use in your romantic love letter.

angel, angelic, lover, beloved, giving, alluring, tempting, sensual, sensuality, sexy, desirous, seeing, tasting, touching, feeling, holding, caressing, thoughts, memories, memorable, darling, sweetheart, honeybunch, gorgeous, handsome, pretty, doll, absence, velvet, voyage, beautiful, thoughtful, vision, elation, blossoms, happy, kisses, hugs, innocent, passion, dreaming, delirious, temptation, missing, complete, desire, fulfilled, dreamy, content, satisfied, embrace, rainbow, rose, adoring, stars, privileged, heart, tenderness, cupid, heart throb.

Ending the Love Letter

Just like the beginning the ending of the love letter is equally important. Conclude your letter by a romantic phrase or thought. In your valediction you can write, ‘forever yours’, ‘all your love’, ‘only yours’ etc. Add some petals or scent as you close the letter and finally you have mastered the art of writing a love letter. So how to write love letters… is not that difficult!!...
Can Romantic Letters Still Fit Into Our Daily Lives?
Today everything is modern, and modernism is far from romantic behavior. Modernism is technology, rush, freedom, and many things that cannot belong to the narrow patterns of the past, when people lived quietly, without being so easily in contact with each other, and the rhythm of their lives was totally different.

At that time the internet didn't exist and letters sent through regular mail were very common. Depending on how far someone was, they could delay an entire week to arrive... Now we send instant messages through email, which are always very simple.
Romantic letters are not only letters telling your partner what you are doing when you are far from them. They have a symbolic meaning. They are letters you keep and remember forever, because they mark important moments during your relationship.

They are letters where the person you love confesses you their deeper feelings, telling you how much they think of you all the time. Letters describing how much they miss you, how much they love you, how much they wish they were near you...

Letters describing their thoughts, fears, hopes, and plans. Describing also their daily lives, banal moments, and many things that they didn't need to write, but that are on the paper, next to their revelations, so that they won't feel so exposed when telling you how much they need you.

Romantic love letters can be simple and short, or they can be long, but they are always very sweet. They may have colours and perfume. They may contain a poem. They may be based on humour, suspense or whatever you desire. You can be very creative...

If you don't know how to write one, simply start describing how you feel, and how the objects around you are. Write something like: "I love you all the time. The yellow wall is very empty without your portrait. The cold apartment is very sad without your presence..."

Tell them how the weather reminds you of moments you lived together in the past; talk also about your plans.

Use descriptions all the time. Write about what you see, what you imagine, what you dream of, and everything else you may remember.

Don't write the words "I love you" too often though. Write them only once, and in smaller letters.

Be kind, enigmatic, and loyal. Write things that you would like to read again after a certain period of time. Talk about your frustrations and illusions. Write all your thoughts and philosophical conclusions.

Love Compatibility

Some would believe curiosity would cause us to look for our soul mate compatibility in the Sun Signs. Asking questions like what is the best mate for Capricorn? What is the best mate for an Aries?… and so forth.

Love Astrology became popular after August 24th 1930 when the Sunday Express published an astrological article by R. H. Naylor about the birth of Princess Margaret. As a result newspaper sales soared leading to a commission for astrologer Naylor to write a series. Soon after this regular astrology columns started to appear in the press leading to the newspaper Daily Horoscopes we know today.

Astrology compatibility reflects that nothing in the universe is so simple or so complicated as man himself. We will discuss what astrology compatibility is for your sign and show you the best soul mate indicators. The question now becomes how do I understand and look for astrological soul mates, Who is my astrological mate? Astrology is how the planets and their movements in the sky affect us, as individuals. Each planet is symbolic to a certain force or energy. Each of the twelve astrology signs represents a different mode or style which energy is expressed. Astrologically, each individual is represented by a chart of the planets and houses at the moment of his birth. From this an astrologer can reveal the many ways and levels that two people relate to each other.

Astrological soul mates can cultivate and encourage the positive to keep relationships growing and fruitful through the highs and lows of the passing years. Romantic love is a powerful belief system in modern day society. Our faith goes out to another person and romance charges a relationship with so much emotional intensity than any other type of partnership. Hopes and dreams are invested in finding your astrological soul mates or mate. We seek happiness in our lover. Let me ask you how such a simple thing can get so complicated? The answer to that is each of us has our own definition of happiness. Our true happiness in life depends on our ability to create and maintain great relationships. Our astrology signs can help us to have a guide out there to find our soul mate.

Find out what does your Astrology Love Guide tell you?


Astrology happens to be of extreme significance so far as human compatibility is concerned. This unique stream of knowledge gives an incredible insight into the various traits of a human personality. By acquainting yourself with these traits, you can ascertain the compatibility levels of a couple with success.

In fact these compatibility insights imparted by astrologer happens to be of crucial importance in making decision about your soul mate. If your astrological compatibility with your girl friend is not that good according to astrology reading, you are not likely to marry your girl friend and even if you marry your marriage may end soon.

That's why before tying the knot people long to know the feasibility of that relationship with the expected spouse. A compatibility insight could either be in conformity with your decision or it may suggest you to give a second thought to your decision.

Birth chart and your stars reveal a great deal about you and your love or marriage compatibility could be adjudged by analyzing your moon sign and position of Mars and Venus. Birth chart depicts the planet that casts a dominating influence over you. You imbibe most of your traits from that dominating planet. Similarly the person with whom you are checking your compatibility is analyzed on these counts. If traits are in conformity with each other and you and the other person under consideration share certain equation of Mars and Venus, you both could be compatible with each other.

Broadly speaking, your astrology sun sign greatly tells your compatibility with the people of other sign. If you are borne with a fire sign like Aries, you have very little chances of sharing a good relation with people of water sign. A general compatibility of sun sign happens to be a very general way of checking your compatibility. However an in depth analysis of birth chart and planets would tell about compatibility with utmost certainty.

Vedic Astrology that is prevalent in far eastern country India, lays great emphasis on astrological compatibility for marriage. Marriage happens to be on the card only when birth chart of bride and groom shows certain similarities or certain equations and this is considered as a sure indicator of higher level of compatibility.

Before marriage you can also go on checking your compatibility.
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