In this section of sensual love we talk about those desires that drive us crazy and makes us hot for our partner. Sex in a relationship is not a chore to complete at the shortest period of time. It is something to look forward to, regardless of the circumstances. Some moments of intimacy should be easy to steal for the one you love so deeply. So let’s get started. Here we have some sexy and hot ideas to keep your love life sizzling. Unfold these secrets to passionate love and feel the energy and intimacy of the first days of togetherness.
Seduce and Close Up
Suspense can make any one restless. Creating an air of suspense can be a very powerful sensual weapon. Write love letters with hints so that it leaves your partner guessing and smiling at the same time. Knowing something and yet not understanding exactly what is going to happen is highly arousing. Even passionate emails that pop up when your partner is at work can stimulate hidden desires. If you want to drop a larger hint then pictures or naughty stories are also great. SMS has also become an excellent way to express your thoughts nowadays. So write hot SMS messages and wait for a steamy evening ahead.
Getting Personal in Public
Physical intimacy is not for public places. Well it is right, but a bit of harmless teasing is not going to offend anyone. After all both of you are going to try so hard to be normal. A quick squeeze of the buttock or hands caressing the back while you try to keep a straight face and smile at your guests. And if sitting for dinner then a bit of leg teasing is known by all. The key is look innocent and burn your partner hot with desire.
After a tiring day at work each one of us want to return home to a hot meal and a smiling face. But then there are days when this is also not enough. So team up seduction and surprise and become an aphrodisiac yourself. Welcome your partner in a sexy way. There are different ideas to of course help you out. Well you can surprise your partner by welcoming him/her with a completely naked you waiting. Or a warm bubble bath with flickering candles is also very romantic indeed. Of course you have to participate in the bath as well. If you want to go extreme then a glass of wine with some role-playing can do the trick as well. And a hint… chocolate sauce tastes awesome when licked up from your partner’s body.
Be Different and Bold
Most of us dress the same way everyday, think the same way and when it comes to romance, chocolates and roses is the best we can come up with. But hot love is going a bit further. Surprise your husband by wearing some of the sleekest lingerie and then letting him know, his wish is your command. Shower time can also be real sexy. Give a massage to your partner, especially in places where only you have access and see him/her turn on right before your eyes. Even some sexy gifts are great to say what’s on your mind.
Friends, sensuality is not about sex. It is about rediscovering each other all over again. So drop those ifs and buts and get up close and personal….
Sensual Massage
Sensual massage is romantic, intimate and special and relaxing... there can’t be a better way unwinding after a hectic and tiring week. A proper body massage involves a variety of touches with the application of pressure at certain points with continuous flowing movements. A massage can release all the tension and pain from the body and leave one completely relaxed. And when your partner gives this relaxing massage then it goes without saying that it makes a connection stronger than anything else. But not many of us know how to give a sensual massage. We most of the time leave it up to the professionals. But it is not a difficult task and with a bit of practice you can get it right. So let’s take this quick guide to a sensual massage and relax the mind and body.The Right Ambience
Getting the mood right takes care of many things. Before you start off give yourself some time as well as the ambience. One of the key elements is the lighting. Remember we are talking sex, sensuality and relaxation. So the fluorescent tube lights are definitely out. The dimmer the lights the better the ambience. Use many candles, scented and votive ones and place them strategically. You can also decorate the room with flowers. But remember to balance the scents. Too many strong smells can get overpowering. And finally a romantic set up is never complete without some soothing background music. Select some soft numbers and put them on repeat.
Selecting the Right Oils
Selecting the right scented oils is one of the key elements of a good sensual massage. There are certain oils like rose and jasmine known to have aphrodisiacal qualities and are great for sensual body massages. One can also go for other kinds of oils if something you like. But don’t use petroleum jelly or any other kind of lubricants as it is not easily absorbed by the body and makes massage difficult. But that doesn’t mean you use hand lotions as these get absorbed almost immediately making massaging very difficult.
Make it Slow and Steady
A sensual massage is not about pounding on your partner’s muscle with a jump-start. Just like sports need a warm up, similarly in a massage as well gradual progress is required. Make an easy start and let your partner get familiar with your hand movements. Remember it is a sensual massage, so give some time for the sensuality to come out. The process of a body massage is all about invoking the right energy flow. But before you start off, make sure your partner’s back is straight. One more thing that is very important in any kind of massage is working directly on the spine. It is best to work along it. As you make progress and your partner starts feeling comfortable with your hand movements, gradually work your way towards the outer end, towards the waist. By this time you must have gained momentum and your partner totally comfortable under your touch. Now your strokes need to be firm, deep and continuous. Patience is very important in a sensual body massage. Maintain a kind of a rhythm as your strokes remain steady with continuous flow with one move leading to another. There shouldn’t be any sudden jumps, keep it smooth. And hey you need to massage the muscles and not the skin.
Just The Right Strokes
Once the warm up massage has been done, it is now time to gradually build up pressure. Now your hand movements can work on large muscles using firm and even pressure at all times. Keep your focus on the neck, back, shoulders and legs. One of the key elements of a sensual massage is that there should be some connection point between the two of you. Involve yourself in the massage. You are not just on the delivery end, but feel the pleasure your partner is feeling. After all who knows his body better than you. Apply equal pressure along the neck and the complete spine, working outwards from up to down. To see him twist with pleasure move towards the arch of the back, where the body curves towards the buttock. Take him to new heights of pleasure as you touch the back of his thighs, calves and shoulder blades.
If your partner works all day long on the desk then pay extra attention to his upper arms, forearms and fingers. But you need to be extra careful while massaging delicate areas like the neck. Use your fingertips for simple strokes and concentrate more on the shoulder joints. It can be really relaxing. The main focus of a sensual massage is to release all stress and negative energy, so it is very important to identify different pressure points. If you apply pressure at the right pressure points there can be some pain and this is good as you release the pressure from the body. However the pain is unbearable then stop right away.
Cool Down
As you reach the end of your sensual massage, cooling down becomes as important as the warm up. You will once more need to slow down and slowly decrease the pressure of the strokes. Wipe the entire body down and remove any excess oil. By this time your partner should be totally relaxed and may have even dozed off. Your partner may not be up to something sexy but hey you did an excellent job. Congrats!!
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