Soul Mates

Love happens...Relationships take time and work.

As the two become one; quotations, love letters and romance flows free. These are all signs of true soulmates. Take your love to new levels of togetherness with wedding ideas, gifts and romantic honeymoon vacations.

Soul mates are the sharers of the eternal bond of togetherness, companionship and true love. Connecting through heart, mind and soul they are friends for life. Soul mates often connect with each other in a very unique and special way.

But how do we know who is our soul mate? You love the person completely and wholly and can sense everything about your lover. You are happy together and can’t think of separation ever. Well, it seems like you have found your soul mate and friend for life.

But like all relationships you have to work even on this one. There are different kinds of soul mates. Understanding what kind of a soul mate you have got or what kind of a soul mate you are, will help you to make your relationship stronger and everlasting. Read below the four types of soul mates and see which one fits best for you and your lover.

The Romantic Soul Mate

• Feels complete and satisfied in a loving and caring relationship.
   
• Seeks fulfillment in a relationship and gains confidence and self-identity from it.
   
• Believes in sharing everything and all secrets from the most trivial to the most important.
   
• Believes in constantly working on a relationship with spending quality time on it.

The romantic soul mate believes in showing their love and affection to their soul mates all the time. A romantic will shower you with gifts and plan romantic getaways. However, sometimes they tend to go overboard. Even if your soul mate is also a romantic it becomes a little too much in everyday life. It will begin to wear the other person out.

A romantic soul mate should learn how to balance the flow of events. It’s not wrong to want to do special things all the time, but you don’t want to scare the other person off. True romantics know how to maintain the perfect balance, making their lovers come back for more and more.

The Sharing Soul Mate

• Believes in sharing a romantic and love filled life as the best way to grow and change things for the better.
   
• Feels complete and satisfied when sharing oneself with the soul mate.
   
• Views sharing dreams, hopes, aspirations as the way to communicate the message of love.
   
• Thinks intimate relationship with ones soul mate is to give meaning and direction to their lives together.

A sharing soul mate believes in the formula of sharing and caring. To them if you don’t open up and talk your heart out you are not being completely faithful to your partner. The first thing they do when they come back from work is to look for their soul mate and talk over the day. They like to involve their mates in all their lives activities right from business to leisure. Every good thing including a bonus to the annual office party is shared with their partners.

Also they share the disappointments in life. Every sorrow, hurt and grief is also shared with their soul mates. This can sometimes weigh down the partner as they can feel buried under the ups and downs of their soul mates life.

A sharer soul mate has to learn to bite their tongue once in a while and give their partner some breathing space. It’s great to share as it gives opportunity to grow and develop as a couple. But then too much of everything is bad.

The Constant Soul Mate

• Takes their relationship as an opportunity to grow in their respective ways.
   
• Accepts their partners as individuals and expects the same type of acceptance for themselves also.
   
• Loves their independence and doesn’t like to be controlled.
   
• Fully enjoys the intensity of their relationship.

An independent soul mate is just the opposite of a romantic soul mate. They give a lot in a relationship but always save guard their independence. They make a circle around themselves and don’t like anyone to come within it. Yet independent soul mates are very enjoyable and happy people. They constantly work on their relationships, trying to bring out the best in both of them.

Their careers are their first love. If their partners share the interest in the same career path, then things will turn out great, bonding them further. But otherwise they can be pretty much left out. An independent soul mate has to learn to share and involve the partner in one’s life. After all love is all about growing together.

To put it all together; there is someone out there for everybody. It is up to us to find our soul mate and hold onto it. None of us are perfect, but every relationship can work out if we promise in our hearts to make it work.

A soul mate is someone who is meant to be loved and cherished in good and bad times. Be there and stand through it all.

Through sickness and in health
Through good and bad times
Till death do us apart.