Misinterpreted Body Languages Of Women

Well we have already understood that men and women say things differently through their body language. So let’s continue the journey and see how the women’s body language is easily misunderstood by men. Understanding women body language is an art and that’s what we are going to unravel here.

Your girl raises her eyebrows and purse her lips in a cold and sarcastic way saying ‘I am fine’ when she is actually fuming.

The Truth: any girlfriend of hers will easily understand this body language. She is in a bad mood and she is just trying to control her anger. But the man just can’t understand these unspoken hints. He has only heard the words, ‘I am fine’ and will accept only that. He takes things on the face value. So when you say that everything is ok then he accepts that.

The Solution: girls are not comfortable at getting harsh at each and every situation. They want to keep things polite. But your guy can handle this. Guys are more straightforward by nature and they expect you to be so also. And if it is not possible to blurt things out, like he shouts that you have spent exaggerating too much on your dress (of course he didn’t get that death cold stare) then keep it for later. Once the both of you are a bit alone then slip a small hint saying that you will discuss that comment later. He will get the clue and try to do something in his rescue. Men are good at solving problems so let them clean up their own mess this time.

You cozy up to him and rub his leg. But he thinks it is his lucky hot night.

The Truth: simply blame it on biology. Men read simple sexual intention into all kinds of body language. Even if you smile warmly maintaining a steady eye contact it may seem suggestive to a man. So any physical touch of course gets all types of ideas in his head. To him this body language suggests that you are in the mood.

The Solution: if you just want to cuddle and feel close to him, then avoiding touching the lower part of the body, especially with your hands. So how about leaning against him, squeezing his hand or putting your arm around his shoulder instead. You can also subtly hint that though you are not up for sex you would love some physical contact. Show that you crave closeness.

When you look completely blank and expressionless he gets into a panic state.

The Truth: it is generally a fact that women smile much more than men. Even if there is no occasion to smile we give a strained approval. And when all of a sudden the face goes blank he gets all nervous and assumes that he must have done something awfully wrong to upset you this much. So then you don’t have much of a choice but to give those plastic smiles to put him at ease.

The Solution: before he gets all panicky and confused, hold his hand and let him know that you are simply relaxing. That way he is assured that he has not done anything wrong and you are not pissed out. So sit back and relax all you want.

So fellows, now we know how easily the body language can be misinterpreted. Read each other’s body language and see your relationship grow in a new light.

Misinterpreted Body Languages Of Men

As mentioned above, men and women have different body languages to say things differently. So here are some commonly misunderstood body languages of men.

While you are talking to him, he shifts his body away from you and doesn’t even tilt or nod his head. So of course you take it that is simply not interested in listening to what you are saying.

The Truth: well women are natural talkers and not only can they talk and share things in the most natural of ways, but also instinctively move their bodies to encourage sharing. So when women are in a conversation, they give their complete undivided attention. They nod their head, smile and gaze at the speaker’s face to encourage the person to go on.

But men are different. The concept of ‘tell me more’ doesn’t come in men. Men listen to gather information and not to empathize. They are silently observing what you are saying and trying to find a solution to the situation, whether you require it or not. They don’t feel the urge to reassure you physically of their attentiveness. Also they are not uncomfortable with silence as women are. They don’t care to fill in the blanks.

The Solution: change your mindset that says that he will look into your eyes, every time you strike a conversation. If you ask him a question or make a statement that requires a response, then give him some time to think. If even after a while he hasn’t replied then reiterate your point.

He is slumped over and not talking. So that means that something is definitely wrong and you must coax him out of it.

The Truth: there is something that is definitely bothering him. And since you love him so dearly and care about him you want to conduct that questionnaire round and find out what’s eating him away. When women are sad or disturbed, they say it through many types of body language. Right from crossed arms to the faraway look, everything says that she needs you to help her resolve the issue. She is seeking your support.

But when your guy shuts down, he is not at all inviting you or your help. In fact he is silently saying ‘I need some space to sort this out…privately.’ He just wants to be with himself for a while. If you try to enter this zone, then you are sure to mess things up.

The Solution: your man has gone in his cave so don’t push him. Once he finds a solution he is going to be his usual self again. What he requires at this moment is that you tell him you understand. So just kiss him on the forehead and just squeeze his hand and go about your work. That way he knows that you haven’t abandoned him and are respecting his need for space.

He says ‘I love you’ but it is simply not convincing. After all he is playing a video game or staring at his shoes while saying so. Why not look into your eyes?

The Truth: well if you are expecting your guy to look deep into your eyes and say those magical words then simply forget it. Men take this way of expressing things, quite cheesy just like a third grade film. It is not a matter of dishonesty that is reflected in his body language but his discomfort in the situation. Men are always geared not to show their emotions, as it is a sign of vulnerability. The more emotionally invested a man is in a situation the more restless he is going to be.

The Solution: when those magical words are said gently hold his face in your hands and with a warm eye contact say ‘I love you’. This closeness will make him feel secure and he will be relaxed with you. Add to his confidence and see the change next time.

4 Ways Guy Show Their Love:

Gesture 1 - He takes care of you with sweet unspoken treats. You send a quick sms saying your day at work is completely hopeless and instead of calling up he prepares dinner and runs a hot bath for you.

Gesture 2 - He tries to put together small things for you, like getting your choice of cds and your favorite coffee so that you are comfortable.

Gesture 3 - He shows his commitment to you. He tells that he is going to call you after 6 and water your plants when you are away and he does exactly that. Your approval means everything to him.

Gesture 4 - He tries to find a solution to every problem of yours. Right from the broken toaster to your irritating roommate, he wants to handle it all. After all men are natural problem solvers and that what he wants to do for you.

Reading Body Language

Reading Body Language is an interesting occupation. You will be fascinated to know the millions of body language that you and I have. In your day-to-day life, you hardly have time to focus on people's body language. Yet, if you give a bit of attention, you will know what a person is trying to say by reading their body language. You will come across a lot of information on How to Read Body Language.

Popular Body Language

You react differently at different times. Suppose you see a person who has crossed the arms, it can mean a lot of things. First of all, the person may seem arrogant and defensive. The person may be doubtful about you or may not have trust in you. It also says that the person does not want to speak to you. The person may be holding back something from you or is lying to you. The person may be protecting himself or herself from harsh words or just feeling cold.

There are many types of handshakes, which have different meanings. A confident person shakes his hand firmly, whereas a shy or nervous person handshakes limply.

When a woman is not moving her arms as she is walking, there is tension in her body, maybe something is on her mind. Anger and anxiety will often be at the root cause of this. If a woman walks slowly, assuming she is physically able, then it reflects that she lives in her own world while finding yours unimportant enough.

A liar can never look you straight in the eye. There is a persistent belief that people with shifty eyes are probably lying. But it is not foolproof as a liar may learn the trick of looking into your eyes easily. Putting your hands behind your back is a powerful gesture.

A person putting his or her hands in his pocket may mean that he or she is nervous, anxious or uncomfortable with the situation or hiding something from you. It can also mean that he or she is bored and uninterested. It gives the impression that the person is not confident.

Observe people and have fun reading body languages.

The Silent Signals of a Relationship

Body language the silent signals of a relationship. So you are hooked up with the best partner and yet things are not going the way you want. You know how to use your body and put across the most fantastic of impressions. But you simply can’t understand how to interpret your boyfriend or girlfriend body language.

According to love experts, non-verbal communication or body language carries much more significance in a relationship than what you actually say to each other. And the biggest challenge in reading your partner’s body language. Women being women and men being men, don’t always send the same silent signals. It doesn’t matter how compatible you are with each other, if you can’t understand each other’s body language then conflicts are sure to arise.

So make sure you don’t stumble over these unseen hurdles and have clear communication between the two of you. Here are some of the most commonly misinterpreted body languages between couples. Just read along and find the smart way to get around them.

Male Body Language

It is often hard to tell what men are thinking and feeling as they do not verbally communicate. So it becomes absolutely necessary to understand their mind. You can interpret them by their Body Language. Let us explore the Male Body Language.

A man's eyes will tell you if he is interested in you. When men are attracted to women, the pupils of their eyes tend to increase in size and blink more frequently. You will also know if a man is flirting with you if his body is pointing to your direction. If a man knows that he is in control then he will stand much closer to the person.

Body Language of Men will give you clue that they like you when they sit with their toes pointing to your direction. You will know that a man is flirting with you if he tends to look at you more. If you are in a group and the man is mostly facing you, it means that he likes you and that he is showing signs that he is attracted in you.

You will know a man is flirting with you by looking at his arms and legs. You may notice that when a man’s legs, knees and feet point to your direction, it means he is giving you signals that he is singling you out from a group and that his attention is focused only to you.

You will know that a guy is flirting with you by observing his body movements. Males move their body to make them look taller and firmer when they are attracted to females. They generally flex their muscles. They also fix their attire or run their hand through hair to appear more handsome. They spread their legs while sitting to show their dominance.

You can also learn from the pupils of a man’s eyes. When men are attracted to women, the pupils of their eyes tend to increase in size and blink more often.

The movement of a man's eyes will tell you if he is attracted to you. Men can give flirting signs through their eyes. You will know that a guy is interested in you if he looks at your one eye, then to the other eye and shifts downward to look at your nose and lips. This gives out the information that he likes the way you look. When a man puts his hands on his hips, it signifies that he is confident and self-assured.

Female Body Language

Women have more Body Language signs than men. Women are a mystery to men. It is hard for men to understand female psychology, so it makes sense that they become aware of Female Body Language.

There are several ways a female uses her body language to convey her interest and attraction to a man. Reading female body language can be simple if you pay attention to their natural progression. One of the ways to know whether a female is flirting is to notice her actions. If a woman twirls or flicks her hair while looking or talking to you, it shows her interest in you. This is her way of telling that she feels comfortable and feminine around you.

Nibbling of lower lip or licking her lip is also an important sign that says that the woman is into you. Neck is one of the sensuous part of female body. If a female touches her neck consciously or unconsciously, it reflects her attraction towards the man. A woman will smile and at the same time tilt her head to the left if she sees a potential male. This body movement says that she likes the man.

A male gets ideas about female flirting, when they stoke and toy objects like pen, sunglasses or wine glasses slowly. If a female puts her pen on her lip, it means that she wants a kiss. Turning the knee or leg towards a man shows that she is inclined to flirting. If a female is self-stroking, may be her neck, ankle and thigh, it means that she wants to be stroked by you.

Female Body Language includes using facial expressions to communicate much more emotion. In case you find her looking alternating between your eyes and lips, it means that she is interested in you. If a woman is showing interest in you, you will often find her checking her appearance. It might be running her hand through her hair, straightening and removing wrinkles from her dress, and many more.

If a woman glances at you more than normal, or you find her looking at you every now and then, that means she has soft corners for you. When a woman crosses and uncrosses her leg often, it interprets that she wants to be close to you.

You men must have understood few Body Languages of Female by now!

Body Language Sign

We all have different body language. We not only speak using our vocal cord but also through our Body Language. Body Language Signs will help you understand people even when they are not speaking to you. Signs are an interesting way of communication. Body movements say a whole lot of thing that can be used to analyze a person. There are various kinds of body language. Emotional body language, defensive body language, aggressive body language, submissive body language, open body language, relaxed body language.

Whether you are comfortable, attracted, not interested, open or stressful, can easily be understood by Body Language Sign. You can use your face, mouth, lips, tongue, eyebrow, hair, shoulders, arms, back, hips, legs and ankle as Body Language Signals. How you move your body parts become your body language sign.

Men use Body language Signs to show how strong they are, to rise above others and to let women know they are searching for a mate. A confident person will have body language of a leader while a coward will have body language of a timid person.

Men's body language is a straight forward non-verbal communication, whereas women can fake and pretend with their body language. Careful observance of body language will help you know what a person is thinking.

Body language is something that is within you and is very natural to you. Crossed arms are usually a sign of tension. The person may feel uncomfortable. If a person stands close to you or leans towards you, it means that the person is attracted to you. When a person looks directly at you while talking then it says that the person is interested in you. If the person is looking away while talking to you, then the person is definitely not interested in you. If you see women biting their lips, it means that they like you and are interested in you. When a person makes direct contact with your eyes for a long time, it represents feelings of sincerity and honesty.

Knowing the Signs of Body Language will be of utmost importance in understanding a person easily.

Body Language Lying

Its commonly believed that every human character has shades of grey in him hence making him vulnerable to lies sometimes. Body Language Lying offers an in depth study of how to detect lies in the person's behaviour. People in their workplace communicate great deal of information to each other without speaking through the use of body language and particular facial expressions. Psychologists believe that Body language is nonverbal form of inter personal communication well personified through the help of gestures. A person's body movements conveys not only feelings but also emotions through facial expressions and if there are cases of body language lying. These body movements indicate whether a person is receptive, angry, distracted, or happy. Many signs of Lying Body Language are commonly interpreted for those individuals who sit in a slumped position and frown.

There are many tips on knowing the varied signs related to body language lying as--

In case the person is lying his Physical expression will be limited with very few arm and hand movements thereby showing his tactful attitude. Also its important to note that Hand, arm and leg movement will generally be towards their own body as its commonly believed that the liar takes up less space while in conversation with others

Another important thing to note is the fact that a person who is lying will try to avoid any kind of eye- contact thereby revelling his inner motives since a direct eye contact would make that person aware of his cheap desires.

Body Language Gestures such as—Hands touching face, and throat also reveals the person's inner tension. Its important to note that touching or even scratching the nose and behind their ear is not regarded as a part of the normal etiquette.

Another way to get to know if that person is at the deceiving end or not is through the well consideration of timing and duration of conversation while at the same time making enough room for emotional gestures where one can easily display emotions. This kind display of emotion is looked as deceptive since there remains a cloud of doubt in them.

Flirting Body Language

Everyone in their life has flirted at least once either knowingly or unknowingly. Flirtatious actions include your conversation, physical contact and body language. You may have faced Body Flirting Language in your daily life. It is a very common practice to flirt with your body. Body language expresses your emotions and is more effective than verbal language. Most of the times you are not aware that you are communicating with your body.

How you make your moves while talking to a person of opposite sex or the way you breathe, the volume of your voice reflects your Flirting Language. Flirting Language consists of flirtatious gesture, eye contact, body posture and facial expressions.

Men and women use body language as a means of communication. Women generally send 5 times more sexual body language signals than men. When two people are relating to each other, the body language messages reveal how each person really feels about the other.

A casual touch can be casual and accidental. It may be a gentle touch to the arm as you laugh at the person's joke or a casual touch to your hand as you are engrossed in conversation. You can make sure that it is friendly and that the other person has a positive reaction to the touch.

You can accept the touch with a friendly gesture or a returned touch, then it seems that everything has gone well. If you move away or ignore the touch, then you are not open to the person. The touch basically assures the other person whether you have let down your defences and have accepted them

Attraction Body Language

Its commonly believed that body language forms a vital part in communicating one's ideas to each other. In other words attraction body language is an art that's widely read at different parts of the world. However, its important to note that different cultures have their own set of body language tools to communicate with each other as each gesture carries a different meaning of its own. Keeping in mind the need of the situation, its important to note that facial expressions too plays an important part in making Body Language for Men attractive to the opposite sex.

Here are some Tips to Make Body Language Attractive as.

its viable that a smile speaks a thousand words. A bare smile can make your near and dear ones feel more comfortable, even during times of distress and tension a smile can calm you as well as those beside you. Its important to note that we use facial expressions so as to communicate our emotions and sometimes the deep passions of love. If you're angry your facial looks speaks about the rightful emotions you're going through at that moment.

When someone talks to you, or while you' re in conversation with others its always advisable to make direct eye contact as this act creates a good feeling and also shows the positive side of you. Such acts show that you're confident and honest in your conversations with him/ her.

Body language for women should reveal their strong personality though sometimes a woman is judged more by the dress she wears rather than her accent and intellectual level. If you're talking to people outdoors, its advisable to open sunglasses as this act blocks in the way of good conversation while at the same time creates an uncomfortable ambiance.

When we meet strangers, its desirable to use the kind of body language which would help you to know that person in a much better way. In majority of the cases its seen that when people go overboard with their emotions, he  / she ends up in an embarrassing situation.

Also use that kind of body language which makes you feel more confident and shows you in good light.